Friday, June 19, 2015

Storms

Welcome back to Unseen. It seemed like a good idea to talk about storms. There are storms like the hurricane this week and storms in our lives. If you are not having a storm right now you are probably either recovering from one or headed into one. Read on for help in the middle of it.


Storm


 The name of the Lord is a strong tower. The righteous run into it and they are saved. Proverbs 18:10.


It was the day before thanksgiving in 1992. I woke up to a winter wonderland, which quickly became less wonderful as I got out in it. The roads were an icy nightmare and ice driving has never been one of my best skills. I was driving a Mitsubishi and managed to slide it off the road and get it stuck really well. That was OK because I was prepared. I had just signed up for AAA and called them for a tow. The very friendly operator informed me that there was a 33 car pile-up on I-40 and it would be several hours before they could get to me.  Then I called my mom who was working at another school in town. I was going to ride with her and Dad to Austin for Thanksgiving.  Mom agreed to pick me up and take me the 30 miles from Amarillo to Panhandle. The snow and ice continued through the afternoon and the 30 mile trip took over an hour. We were sure that Dad would decide that it would be best to wait out the worst  of the storm. And leave in the morning. We were wrong, though. Dad wanted turkey and  dressing, pumpkin pie and UT football. In a statement that will live in infamy in our family, he said, “If we make it past Claude,(20) miles away) we’ll be fine.


We took off, with mom driving slowly and carefully. About 10 miles into the trip there was an overpass which Mom successfully navigated. Dad said, “That was good driving, Stella”. Then we crested the top of the hill and saw a semi stalled in the middle of the intersection and several cars sliding. Mom reacted and slid the car into a snow bank past the bumper. Dad tried unsuccessfully to flag down a tow truck and just as unsuccessfully to free the car. After a while he decided that we would walk the ¼ mile to the little 10 room motel and get a room. After the longest ¼ mile I have ever traveled, we walked into the lobby and told the clerk that we needed a room. She laughed and told us they had been full since noon, but we were welcome to wait in the restaurant with the 30 other people who were stranded. We agreed that that would be good because we were hungry. She apologized and said that the cook wouldn’t be in for an hour and a half. So, tired hungry and cold we made  our way into the restaurant. Dad immediately found 2 of his football cronies so he was happy Mom was immediately drawn to one woman , who it turned out was the only other person in the restaurant who was filled with the holy spirit. {I was not well acquainted with the holy spirit at the time, having grown up learning about the father, son, and Hmm Hmm Hmm Hmm.) After supper, finally, and more visiting we heard the snow plows and waited for them. We waited and waited and waited. About 9:00 the owner said they were going to have to close. Someone called 9-1-1 and the judge called back and told him that they couldn’t close because there was no place for us to go. He explained that he and his family had been there since 4:00 AM and they needed some sleep. The judge, whose name really is Jay Bob, asked who was in the restaurant. The owner named my dad and his football cronies.  Jay Bob said, “Leave them in charge and go get some sleep.” They left the coffee pot and hot chocolate. We served drinks and honey buns, visited, and tried to get some sleep in a variety of contortions.  About 4:30 dads buddies came in looking bright eyed and bushy tailed. Mom asked what their secret was. They said that they had been sleeping in their car and if we wanted to we could take a turn. We gratefully took our bags, turned on the engine and the heater and caught a comfortable 40 winks. We woke up and leaving our bags in the car, mom locked the car and took the ignition key into Jimmy Don. When we didn’t see him, mom asked around and found out that he had left an hour earlier on the snowplow with Judge jay Bob.


Snow plows came with the sun and one after another our new friends dug out and went on their way. The owner comped our lunch for our help and finally the last snow plow came over the hill. In the passenger’s seat was Judge Jay Bob with the key to the car. We got our bags while they freed the car and were on our way. As we left, I looked back at the sign that said, Panhandle – 11 miles. Then I looked at the clock. It was almost exactly 22 hours since we left. The irony of our adventure was that once we got to Claude, the roads were almost completely clear.


Our lives can look a lot like that trip. The wind howls and the snow blows, and one thing after another hits us. What looks like a safe place to wait out the storm is not available. This may be friends who have been “temporarily disconnected or are no longer in service. It can be strategies that no longer work, such as addictions that have lost the ability to numb the pain. It can be a challenge to be crammed together with others  who are storm bound. There are people in my life right now for whom I would love to flag down a tow truck.  There are also times when it is hard to rest and we are weary, physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. It can be hard to wait while other people get their answers while you sit and wait for yours. Rejoice with those who rejoice sounds good in a song, but it can be tough to pull off.


 God is with us in all of these situations. He is our one true refuge. (Psalms 46:1.) He is the God who holds us in his right hand.( Psalms 43:1) He urges us to put on our spiritual clothes of compassion, Kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.(Colossians 3:12) and our spiritual armor ( Ephesians 6) in dealing with our fellow travelers. Finally there is Romans 12:12, where we are urged to be rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation, devoted to prayer. Jesus promised us in John 16:33 that in the world we would have tribulation, but be of good cheer for he has overcome the world.


Let’s be willing to lean on God and his peace and provision in the storm and to be compassionate with our fellow travelers.