Saturday, May 11, 2013

Gifted and Talented

Welcome to unseen. I hope it has been a good week. Those of us who live Unseen have a difficult time receiving from other people and from God.  I think this is especially true of those of us who are caretakers.  Read on for insights in accepting God's love and blessings.

Gifted and Talented

And I will make an everlasting covenant with them: I will never stop doing good for them. I will put a desire in their hearts to worship me, and they will never leave me. I will find joy doing good for them and will faithfully and wholeheartedly replant them in this land Jer. 32:40-41

 

                It was Teresa’s birthday. Her parents went all out. They invited friends and family over. Because it was West Texas, they had a barbecue. They had cake and they had presents.  They had games and they had music. Everyone had a great time. That is, everyone had a great time except Teresa. She was sitting at the table with her head down and tears in her eyes. Her mother went over to ask what in the world was wrong. Was she not happy with the party? Teresa answered that it was a wonderful party, but that she didn’t deserve it.  When her mother asked her what she meant, she said that she did not  make her bed 2 days last week and she was last to school one day the week before and on top of that she had mean thoughts about her brother when he pulled her hair. She knew she was not supposed to do these things and that was why she knew she didn’t deserve the party. Her mother hugged her and explained to her that they did not throw her a party because she was a good girl. They threw her a party because she was their daughter and they loved her.  Then Teresa dried her tears and enjoyed the party for the gift of love that it was.

                Teresa was smart enough to do that. Are we?  God has offered us not only salvation but an abundant life. If we were wise we would be like Teresa and bask in that, doing good because we have received it no so we can earn it. We may refuse the gift of salvation because we don’t deserve it. We may bargain with God to bless us. “If you help me get this job I will read my Bible for an hour every day.”

We may also feel that we deserve the bad things that happen to us.  Abuse victims feel ashamed because they feel they did something to cause the abuse.  A miscarriage might be seen as punishment for not wanting a child at first. If we receive the blessings we might go into a frenzy trying to earn them by keeping the rules and doing enough good. I have been introduced to grace for thirty years and acquainted with it for twenty, and when I get under stress I can go back to this old mindset in a heartbeat if I don’t guard my mind. The reality is that God blesses us because he loves us.  He has even given us talents that we can use for him. We use them because he loves us, though, not so that he will. Do you think Teresa cleaned her room faithfully and helped her parents without complaining after that party? She did it out of love and not guilt or bargaining.

As incredible as it seems, the God of the universe adores you. Look again at the verses in Jeremiah.
 And I will make an everlasting covenant with them: I will never stop doing good for them. I will put a desire in their hearts to worship me, and they will never leave me. I will find joy doing good for them and will faithfully and wholeheartedly replant them in this land.

 Zephaniah 3:17 says,  The LORD your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing. It might be easy to think he gives us salvation and then says that is good enough. In Rom 8:32 he says He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all--how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?

 I am by no means saying we should not use our gifts and talents for God.  There is no time that I am happier than when I am singing for God or writing. I have to keep in mind that it is in response to God’s love and not as a way to earn it. We are all unique and this may not be your struggle, but I bet it is for someone you love.  Please join God’s love feast for you and encourage others to do the same.

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